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Best AI Quote EVER

Happy Today!
Have a fantastically wunnerful up-coming week.
I love you. I appreciate you. You are wonderful!

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Trader Joe coming????

Since I’ve moved into the Tries, rumors float to the surface every so often that Trader Joe’s is coming! And maybe they are. Or not. The Trader looks at population and parking availability, according to an article in our newspaper, and they see the Tries not as one area of 300,000 population, but as 3 separate cities of (what, 100K each?) which isn’t enough. The article contained a link to put in our browser if we want a TJs—type in “Request a Trader Joe’s” or click here: https://www.traderjoes.com/home/contact-us/request-a-store. I’ve mailed them, periodically, letters requesting same, and never received a reply. But, what the heck, I filled out their form, and maybe, just maybe, enough other Tri-Citians will also fill it out, explain that it’s primarily the pols who see 3 separate cities, but us locals just see three neighborhoods separated by 3 rivers with more than 3 bridges connecting us. That we cross into each other’s neighborhood to shop all the time. Also to visit friends and we’d love to visit Trader Joe. So, if you have a TJs in your neighborhood, congratulations, maybe we’ll get one, too. eventually. maybe sooner! Hope springs eternal…

Travel

I’m going to be travelling for the next three weeks or so, not far, but staying with friends I haven’t seen in a long time, so there is a very good probability (high) I will be busy with friends and not writing the blog. But I shall return. Honest. Trust me.

Best AI Quote EVER!!!:

“I got in my car to drive the 200 miles between San Francisco and New York City. I should make it in about two hours.”

Book Reviews

Turn Up the Ocean: Poems by Tony Hoagland

This is Hoagland’s last book of poetry, put together by his widow a couple years after his death. He knew his was dying when he wrote several of the poems. I hope, if I have that foreknowledge and time, my poems will be written with the humor and pathos with which Hoagland wrote.

Hoagland is a writer I truly wish I could have met and shared a cuppa with. His very first poem in the book is “Bible All Out of Order” and I laughed from the first stanza, “One thing’s for sure; in the future, the morgues are going to be full of tattoos. / It’s going to be more colorful and easier to manage: / ‘Hey Jeff, move Dolphin-Shoulder-Girl to tray seven.” / “And get Mr. Flames-on-My-Neck out for the doc.” to the line, “It’s possible I have this all out of order.” to the last two lines, “while being tossed this way and that, askew and asunder, / in this blithering whirlwind of wonder.”

Just reading the Contents, is in itself a poem, and trust me, the actual poems are far more than the sum of the title’s worth! Gorgon, Immersion, Why I like the Hospital, The Reason He Brought His Gun to School: A Blues, Illness and Literature, On Why I Must Decline to Receive the Prayers You Say You Are Constantly Sending, Dante’s Bar and Gril, The Decline of the Roman Empire, Reading While Sick in the Middle of the Night, Peaceful Transition, with a whole bunch more. 

The book ends with “Peaceful Transition.” It begins with, “The wind comes down from the northwest, cold in September,” and flows to “I see the wren has found a way to make its little nest / inside the cactus thorns.”

Rest in Power, Tony Hoagland. Thank you for being, thank you for writing, thank you publishers for publishing your works, thank you for this last book of poetry. You are, truly, missed. 

The book is available from your favorite bookstore or the two linked below. And probably your library (but they’ll want it back).

Turn Up the Ocean: Poems by Tony Hoagland
Published by Graywolf Press, 2022
ISBN:  978-1-64445-092-5 (paperback)
ISBN:  978-1-64445-180-9 (ebook)
Bookshop.org              abebooks.com
5 Stars

The Beautiful Foolishness: poems by Wayne Lee

I love Wayne Lee’s poetry, I have two of his earlier books, and as soon as this one was available on pre-order, I pre-ordered. I love pre-ordering books for a variety of reasons: 1. It helps the publisher know how popular the book will be, 2. it gives the author a warm fuzzy and, 3. I tend to forget I ordered it, and then a month or three later, I receive a beautiful book in the mail like an unexpected and welcomed present. Another reason, some publishers base their royalty payments on pre-sales, and nothing else, and once the pre-sale is over, the royalty rate is set, and no matter how many books are sold later, royalty doesn’t change. 

Back to the topic, Lee’s book:  Lee is a Buddhist, and the peacefulness of Buddhism comes through in his poems, as well a deal of humor—foolishness—and the beauty of our world as it is. The first poem, “The Sky Has Spoken” begins with maintenance of life, “A magpie flies between you and the sun” and drops a dead bird at your feet, a raven flies overhead and drops the warm heart from a small being, “The sky has spoken in a language / you do not understand.” We ask questions, seek meaning beyond what was given, and our questions “rise like cottonwood fluff” and we “listen like a child / with a bright red crayon / poised above a pure white page.” 

The poems are printed in four sections, each section its own, and each beautiful. I love “Approaching Home” which begins, “And then one day you realize / you’re close to home,” and ends with “to some familiar place / you’ve never been.” What a beautiful way  to say you can’t go home again, you can’t step into a river twice in the same place, the world never stops moving.

There is a whole section of haiku, and the first is one of my favorite, “sitting at the feet / of the Buddha / a child laughs”. The last poem in the book, “Flannel Shirt” begins, “It’s the way the shirt hangs” and ends, “on the chair just right”.

Lee’s poems don’t just breathe life and give joy, but give us permission to accept the joy of being alive and to grasp that life in both arms and dance and laugh with it. Buy it, read it, live.

The Beautiful Foolishness: poems by Wayne Lee
Published by Casa Urraca Press
ISBN:  978-1-956375-43-5
Casa Urraca Press       Bookshop.org      
5 Stars

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The Things You See…

I was walking the SamSam the other day, and found this on the back of a car in our parking lot. I thought it worth sharing—and maybe getting 😉

“His voice deadly calm in the way that makes people check their life insurance.”
—another AI quote

And then along comes…

Y’all know how Auntie Lenora hates numbers. If you didn’t know that before, you do now. I do not enjoy math, and I detest algebra. To me, the wonton mixing of numbers and letters is an abomination. Kinda like a tossed salad mixed with worms.

And then along comes AI thinking it’s an author, writing stories worthy of narration and publication. “It was Wednesday, and Nathan came. We spent three days — On Thursday he went back…” Even I, Numbers Phobe Extraordinaire, knows that’s wrong. Sigh. 

My secret sin, I listen to way too many of these, I never comment, I do not wish to encourage more than I do by clicking on them, but I find them laugh out loud funny! The words are mispronounced, the abbreviations written are said incorrectly, and the stories are, well, think romance novels of the ‘70s and ‘80s. The SciFi ones are fairly well done, and fun, but again, very formulaic. The ones that come out of other countries are not always translated, often there are sentences and paragraphs in Asian languages, and I think I’ve caught Russian in a couple. But they are great escape from the Un-named Person (UP) the news generated by same.

The Red Hijab by Bonnie Bolling

I honestly don’t remember who recommended this book, but I wish I did so I could thank them. It’s about 70 pages of some wonderful poetry. As H. L. Hix says in the Forward, Bonnie Bolling “…lives a part of each year in Diraz, a village in Bahrain [and] is in position to offer, and does offer in The Red Hijab, an alternative to [news dispatches.” I would like to know why she lives there part time every year, because I’m curious. 

I found the poems engaging and telling of a life more as it’s lived than reported on the news. Yes, there are the sounds of shootings while a chicken cooks in someone’s kitchen. There is rain and a soaked housemaid passing wearing her red hijab. 

Bolling takes us on a tour of day-to-day-living in a culture very unlike ours, and while I don’t think I would want to live in that culture long-term, I found it beautiful in its honesty, and of course, had I been born into it, it would be all I would know. 

From the first and title poem, “The Red Hijab” which begins: “A hard rain falling on the corrugated roof / of the abandoned double-wide / across the steaming street,” to the last poem of the book, “On a Balcony with the Lunch Poems” which ends, “always the going, / always the returning, / the four of them wearing / Superman underwear.” (she returns to California and her sons) we are treated with the beauty of words, and a country I’ve never known and would like to meet. 

The book is divided into three parts, introduced by quotes by people as varied as Adonis, Virginia Woolf, Job, and Rumi. The word Azan appears many times, and when I looked it up, thinking it was a synonym for muezzin I learned something, which makes the book even more worthwhile. The muezzin is the man who calls/sings the azan, the call to prayer, from the minaret. There are several of the calls or summons to prayer on line, here is one classified as the “Most Beautiful Azan Ever Heard.” I cannot attest to that, because it’s the only one I’ve ever heard, but it is beautiful. 

The Red Hijab by Bonnie Bolling
ISBN: 978-1-943491-06-3
BkMkPress, 2016
available from Amazon
            I looked at abebooks.com and it cost twice as much plus an outrageous s/h fee. I could not find it on Bookshop.org. Amazon has new ones for $12.74
5 stars

First Goslings!

Our first goslings of the season were brought over to the small pond next to my office on Thursday. There were four of them. Parents very watchful and protective. A lot of folks don’t like Canada Geese, but they are family oriented. As more goslings come along, the families frequently band together, herding all the youngsters into a mass bundle of cuteness, and walk surrounding them, or swim surrounding them, to keep them all safe. Ducks don’t seem to be that caring. The drakes ignore the hens while they nest, so they must leave the eggs unattended while they eat, and when the babies come, the hens are protective of theirs, but aren’t smart enough to see banding together with other duck hens and young would add more protection. They will attack any duckling that wanders into their group or territory, as the usurper will steal the food of their babies. I don’t want to politicize our geese or ducks but they do rather remind me of our two major political parties. /meow/

I believe the gander is on the left, and the dame on the right. The four yellow spots are the goslings.

“The holiest place on earth
is where your greatest
enemy stands.” –unknown

Blatant Self-Promotion:
I’m sorry, but every so often I really need to self-promote
Saying Goodbye to Thomas.
If you would like to asigned copy, contact me.
The cost is $23.00 including shipping and handling,
otherwise, please check your local indie bookstore, Bookshop.org or the other place.
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is also divided equally.
I make NO money from this book.

I’m Late, I’m Late…

Happy Today. Have a fantabulous next seven days. I love you. I appreciate you. 

Yes, I’m a little late. This past week has been, well, a week. A wonderful week, but still a week. I think I mentioned sometime past that I was taking a six-session workshop on Arthur Sze’s book, Into The Hush. The last session was Saturday 21 March. Then, because we did not have a great deal of time for generative writing during our sessions, on this past Saturday, the 28th, we had a session of generative writing, during which I got two good first drafts (poetry) written. 

When that session finished, I signed out of zoom, made a dash to the kitchen for my leftover hamburger from the night before, signed into another zoom session for almost two hours of a No Kings Rally for people who couldn’t make it to a local rally, or for whatever reason couldn’t attend. Our local rally is always fun, but it’s two hours of standing, not walking/marching, and my knees have finally convinced me they are as old as my birth certificate declares. The zoom rally was interesting. I had no idea what to expect and thought they may show clips of live rallies throughout the country, but nope, they had speakers, and the theme was science and what a debacle Bobby’s kid has made of Public Health. Speakers included Nancy Pelosi, AOC, a congressman who is a trained physicist whose name I disremember, and several other people, all interesting. 

By the time I “returned” from the rally, I’d been on zoom a tad more than 5 hours, my eyes hurt, my butt hurt, and poor neglected Mister Sammy Brave Dog was begging for some cuddle time. Trust me, getting horizontal on my bed, with a warm puppy dog next to me was just what the doctor ordered. And then I had to get ready for the third zoom of the day—my weekly poetry critique. By the time it was through, I’d spent somewhere between seven and eight hours stuck in a zoom room. I was tired of looking at a computer screen. 

I had 2 hours of zoom scheduled for Sunday, an open mic, out of the LA area, where a group of us meet every Sunday to read two poems. We have become a family. We have virtually held and supported each other through breakups, deaths, dreams unfolding to great happiness, and even had sibling arguments and makeups. 

I had errands and baking to do in the morning, and in the early afternoon, I made a couple of fun phone calls to two of my sisters of the heart. Those were a lot more fun and interesting than cleaning out my emails 😉 which I did after my last zoom of the day. 

The days before, when I could have been working on this post, I was writing, and working on my poetry. 

10 Books to Read After Project Hail Mary

Part of my morning routine, actually, daily routine, is to check the news, and look for short things on YouTube that aren’t depressing. I came across one this morning that was interesting. A 15-minute 10-book book review on books to read or listen to, after seeing/reading Project Hail Mary. I’ve already read some, and agree with her assessment of them and thought you might be interested in the list. To see the video, click here.

Podjo

Thomas named this crow Podjo, Spanish for old friend. He came to whatever patio Thomas and Sheryl were sitting on, or near if he saw them through the window, to wait for his peanuts. He got to the place where he would eat out of Thomas’s hand, and brought a great deal of joy to Thomas in his last months. When I took Sammy to visit with me, we had to keep him restrained when Thomas tossed the nuts out his door for Podjo. Sammy wasn’t interested in Podjo, he wanted the peanuts!

Be well, be safe, be happy!

Can Our Sun Be Saved?

Happy Today! Have a Fantastical rest of the Week. I love you; I appreciate you!

Some alien life-form is eating not just our sun, but almost all others in the universe. Can our sun be saved? Can Earth be saved? Sorry, you’ll have to escape to Tau Ceti aboard the space ship Project Hail Mary with Ryland Grace, two other astronauts, and meet Rocky, an alien from Erid (I think that’s the name), to find out.

Housemate Dan and I read the book a few months ago, along with our Book Group, and I could hardly wait to see the movie. I thought today would never get here. We decided to go today instead of yesterday when it opened, because a couple of friends wanted to go with us. We all enjoyed the heck out of the movie.

Ryan Gosling played Ryland Grace, scientist and unwilling astronaut. Rocky was played by, well, himself. Rocky is a puppet. Gosling is an extremely brave, as well as talented actor. Actors should never have to play opposite children or Muppets. Though I doubt Rocky is a Muppet, just a puppet. 

For those of you who know me, you’ve heard the story, I’m sure, about an animated movie, WALL-E, where an animated robot is the last person on Earth, and is visited by a space ship with humans returning to Earth, and Wall-E falls in love with a lady robot and leaves to be with her, and leaves his best and only buddy a robot cockroach all alone on Earth. Yes, I cried over an animated robot cockroach being abandoned. 

Rocky isn’t a tiny cockroach. And, yes, there was a place in the movie when I cried. But there were more laughs than tears. I even picked up some of the musical jokes. If  you need to get as far away as possible from Earth and our current problems, even if you haven’t read the book, go see Project Hail Mary. 

Andy Weir is the author of the book. He also wrote The Martian. If you haven’t read that one, or seen the movie, do both. And you might find some interesting YouTube programs on, including this one on how zero G spacewalks are filmed in movies with Adam Savage. There are plenty more, including several teasers.

The Missing Heron

I think this is the female, but I haven’t seen either her or the male in the last 2-3 weeks. Maybe they are someplace building a nest? Maybe they’ll have little herons and bring them by in a couple months? Anyhow, this was taken through my office window. 

Hiking With the Elderly

Happy Today! May your week be Fantabulous! I love you. I appreciate you.

I found an old file on my computer the other day, and in wandering through it, came across this piece I wrote several years ago, and thought y’all might get a chuckle out of it.

Hiking With the Elderly

My stepdad, Sandy, had at least four weeks of vacation per year, and we often spent that camping with my Grandma and Skipper—what everyone called my grandpa—my mother’s parents.  One year, my best friend Pat was invited to join us.  Two teen-aged girls, for four weeks of primitive camping! What was my family thinking?

Our first camp site that year was in central Oregon just south of Bend, on East Lake, which is east of Paulina Lake.  The adults would spend most of the day out on the lake fishing, and Pat and I would spend our time hiking, wandering around, reading, and checking out the guys.  The latter took very little time, as there weren’t many our age worth checking out.  And the ones there were, were far more interested in fishing than us girls.  Their loss.

One day, Skipper decided to take us on a hike to the fire look out tower at the top of Paulina Peak, almost 8,000 feet elevation.  Now, Pat and I decided we’d go easy on the old man, after all, we were teenagers, and he was in his 70s.  So off we went.  We drove to the trail head, and started up. It being both good etiquette and common sense to allow the slowest to lead, we let Skipper lead us up the trail.  We went up.  And up.  And up.  We finally got to the top.  The view was spectacular, as I recall, and we spent a little time there, then it was time to go down.  And down.  And down.  No, only two downs.  It was three ups and two downs.  I’m positive of that.  

Back at the campsite, with a couple hours of daylight left, Skipper went fishing – Pat and I collapsed into a long and wonderful nap.  We woke in time to eat supper, and then slept all night long.  We were pooped.  So much for giving the old man a break.

Several years latter, when my son was in his early twenties, I bought a new pair of hiking boots.  We decided to take them on an inaugural hike.  I found a trail close to my apartment, a ‘wandering creek trail’.  I thought that would be a nice easy hike, following the creek.  A good way to break in my new boots. What the trail name failed to tell, and the map failed to show, as it wasn’t an elevation map, was that the wandering creek wandered as it fell over several hundred feet – the trail went up and up and up.  One of the steepest trails I’d ever been on.  Aaron and I hiked and climbed and when we got to the top, where it leveled out, we walked. 

The view was spectacular, and there was a nest of well-marked and maintained trails at the top of the plateau.  I later spent many afternoons and weekends exploring those trails.  Though I seldom took the wandering creek trail again.  Oh, and when we got back to the apartment, Aaron collapsed into a long and deep nap.  I went grocery shopping.  Once again proving old age and treachery will win over youthful exuberance.  Or is it that history repeats itself?

Caliche Road Poems by David Meischen

This book has been in my to-read stack for several months. I finally got to the book, and am so sorry I waited so long to get to it. Caliche Road Poems should have been at the top of the stack and it should be at the top of yours!

As Meischen says in the note at the beginning of this powerful, accessible collection, “These poems originate from a particular place and time—the Meischen family farm in the Dilworth community of Jim Wells County Texas, 1948 and the years that followed.” The poems are about his youth, and his family, and friends as he knew them and remembers them.

As a city gal who, especially as a young, romantic, girl, dreamed of marrying a farmer or cattle rancher, I found this collection both informative and fascinating. And, I think, I’m glad I stayed a city gal, though I do prefer towns to raging cities.;-)

I love the images—his parents dancing to Glenn Miller, the air conditioned shop in Corpus Christi, the trees, the play of children, the dangers of farm life. I could smell the mesquite, my back ached harvesting cotton.

And any grown man (or woman), who still calls his daddy Daddy, has my undying love and admiration. The Meischens are a family I’d love to know, to sit with a cup of coffee or iced tea and just converse and enjoy their company, a slow Texas breeze, the scenery from the kitchen or the porch. Thank you, David Meischen for sharing your family and home, dogs, cows, everyday life. I look forward to returning several times in my future.

Caliche Road Poems by David Meischen 

ISBN: 978-1-962148-03-0
Lamar University Literary Press, Beaumont, Texas
Bookshop.org

This book deserves a place on your nightstand. Delightful poems with which to end your day.

Sunday Service

I know I’ve told you about Rev. Dr. Staceypants and her Sunday Sermons. It’s the first time in 40 years or more that I’ve actually looked forward to Church on Sunday, or any other day of the week. For those of you who don’t know her, at least electronically, you might want to check her out. Today’s sermon: “Is It a Sin to Cheer for Iran?” And, no, she’s not a closet Muslim, and she’s not anti-American. For an interesting sermon, by an atheist, recommended by another atheist, click here. And don’t forget to call out, Amen at the appropriate places!

Standards Not Force

Those of you who want to resist, and for whatever reasons can’t do marches, etc., please consider checking out Standards Not Force. for Substack, and Standards Not Force on YouTube. They have a way for us old folks to pull our part.

Be well, be happy, be safe

A Hack from an Old Fartess.

Happy Monday! Have a Great rest of the week. I love you. I appreciate you.

So, I’m at that age when my joints don’t work like they used to, they talk more than I do, and they sure aren’t a flexible as they used to be. And, I have a dog. And dog’s make offerings to the Grass Gods, and the Grass Gods are very specific that such offerings must be properly picked up and deposited in the large green altars at each corner of the apartment complex. 

If you don’t know, the Grass Gods live at ground level. And old joints aren’t flexible, and being a good People Mommy to Mister Sammy Brave Dog, I need to pick those offerings up before the Grass Gods decree us homeless. 

So I bought a 16” kitchen tong. I slip the GG approved bag over the grabby ends, bend over a wee it, pick up the offering, pull the bag over it, and deposit it in the large green altar nearest to wherever we were. Actually, I bought two tongs. I have one in my office to pick stuff off the floor that I drop. Works great for pens, papers, pins—-hmmm, maybe I’ll get another for the sewing area.

One can go to the pet store and buy a heavy plastic pooper scooper, and I had one when my toe was operated on and I couldn’t bend my foot, in fact I couldn’t walk on it flat, only on the outer edge. It worked great on grass, if it hadn’t just been mowed, and the plastic teeth could get under the offering and lift it. But if the offering was given on dirt, on rocks (we have a lot of both) the teeth couldn’t get under the offering. Yeah. Eeeewwwww!! But the tongs? Voila!

Poetry

I have written a tick over 2 poems a day since 1 Jan. There have been a couple of days when I haven’t written a new poem, but I’ve worked on some that were already written. I have over 100 poems filed, more if you count each version 😉 And a new flash fiction! With dragons!!! HUZZAH!!

Mr. Sammy Brave Dog

He is finally learning not to bark at everyone who walks down the community hall to their door. Or when someone walks by outside. It’s nice to have him much quieter like he was before we moved here, but it was nice, when we got a package left by the door. The problem was, he couldn’t tell if it was our door or the neighbors, it it’s a delivery person, or a resident. He still doesn’t spend much time in my office, but I can’t blame him. If I had a choice between laying on the floor or on a bed, I’d take the bed, too. Unfortunately, he won’t get into or onto a dog bed. He will, now and then, make a nest of the blanket on the floor near my chair. But it’s not as comfy as the bed. And there just isn’t room for a large chair, sofa, or bed in my office.

bed shark.

Billy the Kid

Before I begin, here is your Monday Public Service Announcement:

Happy Monday. Have a great rest of the week. I love you. I appreciate you.

When I lived in Albuquerque, I started working on a book of poetry about Billy the Kid, aka William H. Bonney, aka Henry McCarty—his birth name. I was still in the research stage when life happened, and I moved back to Kennewick, and became involved in other things. I still dream of going back to New Mexico, Fort Sumner, etc., and doing research, and writing the poems, but then, I’m a dreamer, eh?

In the meantime, someone in my critique group recommended a book last year, Coming Through Slaughter, a fictionalized biography of New Orleans jazz pioneer Buddy Bolden and is partly set in Slaughter, Louisiana, by Michael Ondaatje. I enjoyed the book, so when I found The Collected Works of Billy the Kid also by Michael Ondaatje, I had to read it, too. And I was not disappointed!

There is not a great deal known about Billy, but there is some information out there, and Ondaatje did a marvelous job of using what little is known as a springboard for his poetry and prose. It reads like a journal, or maybe a better description is a collection of his (Billy’s) papers, what were found, often without beginning or ending. Some of the poems actually have titles, or at least attribution as to who wrote them, as “Miss Sallie Chisum” by Sallie Chisum describing Billy “As far as dress was concerned / he always looked as if / he had just stepped out of a bandbox.” She goes on to describe his clothing, finishing with, “he was the pink of politeness / and as courteous a little gentleman / as I ever met.” From what I’ve found about Billy in what little research I’ve accomplished, this was a fairly accurate description of him.

By many accounts I’ve read, Billy was a gentleman, at least where the ladies were concerned. He dressed well, he was polite, he was bi-lingual (English and Spanish) and possibly tri-lingual. There is some information out there he spoke Gaelic, probably learned at his mother’s knee.

If you’re looking for a good and plausible book about Billy, I highly recommend The Collected Works of Billy the Kid.  It’s great fun. If you’re looking for a scholarly account of the young man’s life, this isn’t for you. And yes, there is the conspiracy that Garrett shot the wrong man, claimed he was Billy, buried him, and collected the reward and that Billy once again escaped, made it to Mexico or someplace, lived a quiet life as a law-abiding citizen, married, and had a family, etc., etc., etc. Billy was a master at aliases and escapes, so this isn’t entirely unbelievable.

Oh, and in the interest of transparency, or just kinda interesting stuff, when Daddy was a youngster, he met a man who knew Pat Garret who is credited with killing Billy the Kid. We are closer to history than we sometimes realize.

My Friday

Those of you who know me, know I’m not really a morning person. Oh, I get up early enough, because when I wake up enough to answer the early morning calls of bladder and dog, I’m up. I try not to get up before 4am, but sometimes it’s earlier, and if I go back to bed, I just lie there for a couple of hours and I might as well be up and at the computer with my cuppa joe. Like this morning, Sunday. Yes, I’m up, but I’m not cognizant, I’m not ready for thinking, for talking, for doing much beyond watching something on the computer and maybe, if I’m lucky, getting a few words written on the virtual paper before me. Somewhere around 9am, I actually become functionally awake 😉

So, this past Friday, I signed up for a poetry workshop, that started at my time of 7am. It was something like 3 hours long, and very interesting. I actually got 4 poems written during that time. No, they are not ready to be abandoned, but they are good enough to warrant some editing and maybe submission. Then, later that afternoon, I attended my weekly workshop of prompts, and wrote two more poems, also pretty good first drafts. Aren’t you glad I don’t share all the poetry I write with you? Since 1 Jan this year, I’ve written 90. Boy Howdy, do I know how to have fun!!! 😉

How Many Days Until Mid-Term Elections?

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! You really think we’re going to have them? Nope, they ain’t gonna happen, my gentle families and friends. That’s why we’re in an undeclared-by-Congress war, so the Unnamed Person can claim an emergency, and take over and cancel elections, or have them with his goons manning polling places. Yep, we’re closer to history than we realize.

(Please, prove me wrong. Please, please, please.)

be happy, be well, be safe!

Happy Monday. Enjoy the rest of the week. I love you.

How would your life be different if on the first day of school/kindergarten, you received a card or a note that said: “Happy Monday. Enjoy the rest of the week. I love you.” This card was from your teacher, and s/he explained everyone would make a card for the following Monday, to give to someone in the class, everyone would make a card, everyone would receive a card. And this card exchange would be every Monday for the rest of your school life, through graduation of High School.

How would your life be different if, every Monday through your K-12 school life, you learned to give and receive a gift, homemade or store bought, to one of your classmates? That’s thirteen years of giving and receiving gifts. 

Your brain would have probably been wired toward the perspective of compassion and pro-social thoughts. You would have a moral identity reinforced by friends and family. You would see yourself as a helper person, a caring person, and an ethical person, all of which would help you in decision making.

Your aggressive reactivity would probably be reduced, your social confidence and belonging built and shored up by the frequent positive reaction with strangers and neighbors. Social anxiety would not be nearly as strong, your community attachment and long-term civic orientation would be strengthened.

Children exposed to structured generosity are more likely to engage in volunteering, cooperation, and nonviolent civic participation as adults. The net gain effect of 676* structured acts of kindness during developmental years creates a durable pro-social identity, higher emotional stability, and stronger community trust norms that persist into adulthood. 

The immediately preceding paragraphs are paraphrased from:

America’s Real Threats – And Our Plan to Reduce Them (Without WASHINGTON0  Former Black Panther Speaks: Can America be Saved? This link is to his substack and is free. You can also find it on YouTube. I have his permission to post the substack link. I hope you’ll take the 23 minutes to listen to the whole talk. I hope you’ll subscribe, and watch/listen to all the videos in the series. 

And, as my final paragraph on this topic, please think where we, as a nation, would be if this had started say in 1900, or 1920, or even 1940. And, please, become part of the nationwide network to think and act with strategy, not anger. It is never too late to change.

*The Former Black Panther was counting on 52 weeks a year times 13, most school years are closer to 40 weeks, I think, which would make it closer to 520. But then, there’s no reason during summers and school breaks, that giving couldn’t be carried on with neighbors, which would bring it right back up to 676 or so 😉

Uncoupling, Poems by Margo Davis

All couples will uncouple at some point. Train engines are uncoupled from train cars, children are uncoupled from beloved pets, parents are uncoupled from children, and lovers and life partners are uncoupled through mutual agreement or death. With the (presumably) exception of the trains, the loss of uncoupling brings pain of varying degrees, as well as freedom (of varying degrees) and maybe guilt, and even joy as we acknowledge the happy memories of earlier days, that our beloved is free of pain, of agony and now Rests in Power with their God.

Davis has a marvelous sense of humor that comes through in many (most?) of these poems, from the very first poem, Southern Tradition, “A Southern woman could / lace a rat with garnish / and pass it on. // the mixologist’s cocktails /…/ hurricane comin’!” One of my favorites being Better Times about the old codger, Lassie, Timmy and a three-foot glass of milk. Her humor is anything but juvenile, as noted in her last poem, Breathless In Portugal, “Messejana sheep take me / as I am. Uphill downslide I traverse //…Sleight of Hand. Oh tongue / that I never knew. I knew.”

I found this book delightful and engaging and one with poems I have read more than once! I heartily recommend it. Available through your favorite bookstore or online through https://Bookshop.org

On a More Political Topic

I believe I’ve mentioned a time or two, my favorite political pundit is Keith Olbermann, (my second favorite pundit is David Reddish, but that’s another post). It isn’t just the politics, I enjoy Olbermann’s personal discussions, too. Especially when he talks about famous people, or not quite famous people, he knows or has met. Keith’s sense of humor is marvelous, at least over the air. He is one of the famous people I’d like to have a cup of coffee with, though I’d probably be so tongue-tied I wouldn’t be able to put three words together that made any sense. Anyhow, Thursday’s episode (His podcast, Countdown with Keith Olbermann, airs every Monday and Thursday morning) is a bit long, but the last part, where he talks about Robert Duvall and the movie Network is worth the price of admission. Network, for those of you who, like me, haven’t seen it, is a 1976 American movie about a fictional tv station, UBS, with low ratings, written by Paddy Chayefsky. Olbermann brings up 23 instances in the movie that were prescient to today’s tv networks that were not even thought of when the movie came out, and which when people saw it laughed because those things could never happen. Is it time for a movie? Starring Faye Dunaway, William Holden, Peter Finch, Fobert Duvall, Wesley Addy, and a host of others. Although I could find places where it’s streaming, all the sites want money. Clap if you’re surprised.

Unbuilding (a Book Review)

Just finished reading a fun book, Unbuilding by David Macaulay. It’s children’s lit, but great fun. In 1989, a Saudi Prince buys the Empire State Building, has it dismantled, labeled, etc., and put on a ship to Saudi where it can be reassembled. This is the story of Unbuilding the Empire State Building. It’s full of pen and ink drawings, and if you have any budding architects, engineers, or builders in your sphere, you might want to consider the book for them. It’s available from Bookshop.org or if you don’t mind a used book, from abebooks.com. Or from your favorite indie bookstore.

I’m going to have to try his other books. Well, some of them. He’s got bunches and they look way fascinating. He’s got at least 25 listed on Bookshop.org. ranging from Castle to The Way Things Work to Mammoth Math: Everything You Need to Know About Numbers to Rome Antics. I’ll probably skip the Mammoth Math—it’s hardback, and I prefer softback /snort/. (for those of you who don’t know, I prefer letters and words to numbers and equal signs)

However, since I’m on the topic of books, when Covid hit, I attended a book launch by Arthur Sze of his book The Glass Constellation sponsored by Rain Taxi. It was via a zoom-type of program, so no one was crammed in a seat next to 100 of their new best friends, we were all given our own little “room” on a screen. Sze was maybe a quarter of the way through with his presentation, and I had already ordered the book. I’d never heard of him before that night, but that’s how impressed I was with his poetry. When my book came, it’s a compendium of several of his earlier books, all bound together with new and selected poems. I literally consumed the book withing r or 5 days. I have since added several other books to my collection, including his latest, or one of his latest ones, Into The Hush. Not only do I love the book, but I was invited to join a group of poets who will gather for 6 meetings to study the book, its poems, and do writings inspired/based on his poems in the book. 

The small group I am in (3 per group) decided to study/work on Letter to Tao Qian. Thanks to Favorite Daughter, I have The Silk Dragon II, a book of Chinese poems Sze translated, and the first 5 poems are by the Ancient Chinese poet, Tao Qian. It’s very interesting to read those 5 poems and find the references in Sze’s poem. Homework has never been such fun. 

My Winter Gift from me to me this year was Sze’s book, The White Orchard. It is a collection of some of his interviews,  essays, and some poetry. The most interesting parts to me are the areas where he talks about how he writes. He often uses disparate phrases and fragments of sentences for his lines, but all of the lines are deliberate, and in a deliberate order. Because we all bring our own stories to the ones we read, we are each given our own interpretation as to what his lines mean. Is he telling us to stop, relax, breathe, acknowledge there is evil in the world, but to spend more time on the beauty? I have started writing “like” Sze, but not like him. My mind is trainable, but I don’t want his voice, I want his style. I want to keep my own voice. I want someone to read my poem and say, “Ah, she’s read Arthur Sze!” It is very difficult for me to think in segments and fragments, but I have written a couple of poems with one-line stanzas, in disparate fragments. I am also working on a long, sectioned poem like he writes, with each section being in a different format. Those are the poems that caused me to order The Glass Constellation.

Of course, there are many poets out there I really like—the ever-gracious Naomi Shihab Nye, the late Lucille Clifton, the late Paul Monette, the effervescent Diane Seuss, and the incomparable Eduardo C. Corral. But I am in Literary Lust with Arthur Sze 😉

Imagine You Are Madame Dorion

So, I log onto YouTube and am looking at the videos on my home page, and notice a photo of buffalo in a snow storm that looks familiar, like one I took, and then I look at the words, and it IS one of my photos from when my friend and publisher of Madame Dorion put together a promo video for my book. Wow! Something from ten years ago showed up—a whole video of my photos.  On my YouTube home page. If you didn’t get it on your home page, it is here — a smidge under 7 minutes. And, if you haven’t read the book, you can find it at your favorite bookstore (they may have to order it) or at bookshop.org. Historical fiction at its finest, not that I’m biased—or bragging. By the way, the cover on Madame Dorion was painted by a descendant of Madame Dorion.

And Remember

If you don’t yet have your copy of Saying Goodbye to Thomas, you may pick up, or order, a copy from your favorite bookstore, or order a copy here, at Bookshop.org. All proceeds go to the ALS Association and End of Life Washington/Death With Dignity.

William Stafford Challenge

Today, 16 February 2026, is the 31st day of the William Stafford Challenge. The Challenge goes from 17 Jan to 17 Jan (his birthday, and we write a poem a day), on the 17th of January, I had written 22 poems, having started on the first of January. By this morning my number of poems written is currently 68. More will come this day, I am sure. 

Now, they aren’t all good poems, though a couple are, but they are all seeds to go back and edit, revise, and have good poems emerge. 

A fond memory of my road trip through the Southwest a couple years ago. The tall skinny ones are saguaro cactus. It was warm. Blessedly warm.

Be Happy, Be Well, Be Safe

Happy Valentine’s Day

Or, if you don’t celebrate Valentine’s day, Happy Saturday!

I subscribe to The Ekphrastic Times, the newsletter of The Ekphrastic Review, and received their monthly newsletter with this piece of art by Lorette C. Luzajic. I absolutely love it, and requested permission to share with you, and she readily agreed. 

Image: Love Is, by Lorette C. Luzajic (Canada) 2025

Lorette is an award winning artist, and her work may be found on Etsy

The Ekphrastic Review is here

full disclosure: Lorette has published two of my poems, the latest is here

And yes, there will be the regular blog on Monday. If I don’t forget. I am old(er), you know— 

The only correct answer to any question is an honest answer!