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I Feel a Homesick Coming On

Weather today in the Tries (Richland, Kennewick, Pasco): 

currently 21 and snowing, humidity is 100% (which makes it colder than a well-digger’s bottom), wind chill brings it down to 25. Under Hazardous weather conditions until noon. High today expected to be 30. See pictures at end of post.

Homesickness is coming:

One of the absolute bestest things about the time I lived in Florida was Swarm X of the cicadas. My first summer there, Swarm X emerged. OMG. I loved it. There were loud, but wonderful. I slept most nights with my window open just to hear them.

Swarm X is the largest of the swarms, and it will emerge again this year. And oh, boy, do I feel a homesick coming on. Frankly, if I spent 17 years underground and finally came out, I think I’d be pretty loud, too! Whoopeeee. Free at last. Free at last!!!

I’m no expert, but I believe all cicadas are underground for that period of time, fortunately, they are on different cycles so those fortunate enough to live in cicada country get to hear their mating songs every year, just not in the same numbers.

If any of you live in Swarm X country, send me a tape of their singing, will you? Please. Pretty please.

There are lots of things I miss about Florida. All the friends I made, and all the wildlife. Cicadas, birds (fortunately, we have several same or similar birds here on the Columbia River), even the reptiles—especially the alligators. The spiders, not so much. I wasn’t at all tempted to bring any of them back. 😉

Atlas Obscura, one of my favorite sites, has a short article on The 17-year Cicada Swarms of Brood X here.

Speaking of a homesick coming on, I realize I’m remiss in keeping the Entertainment Section current and up-to-date. I just know at least one of you cares. Don’t you?

Addendum to last week’s post: This past week, I was offered $40.00—again—and begged to delete or the poor thing is going to be fired by her boss in this time of covid. Last week she made it sound like she was one of the owners. Alas, I have not heart strings for her to pull. Actually, I’ve been told I have no heart. I contacted Amazon and filed another complaint and was assured they would be investigated. I wasn’t sure the first complaint went through, but one of my Amazonian friends checked, and this one went through.

Entertainment:

Hallmark Movies and Mysteries. Yes, I like some of them. And I tumbled to a new, to me, Gourmet Detectiveepisode the other night. I actually like most of the mystery series they have except the one about the flower shop. And the reruns of old network shows. I don’t care for most of those, now that Columbo and Perry Mason are off the schedule.

Books: Please go to Rainy Day Reads for more complete reviews.

River Hoard —by Neil Leadbeater. Poems of Scotland. A mini vacation to Scotland.

The Cup (The Moroccan Empire Book 1) —by Melissa Addey. This is a fascinating novella to lead us into the series I have not yet read but intend to. An excellent historical adventure.

The Consorts (Forbidden City Book 1) —by Melissa Addey. Another novella to lead us into another historical adventure of the Forbidden City in the 1700s. I can hardly wait to read the rest.

Death Retires (Death Retired Mysteries Book 1) —by Cate Lawley. What a hoot! One of the deaths (who knew there was/is more than one?) retires to a nice, quiet neighborhood with his ‘pet’ bobcat, Clarence who steals every scene he’s in. Laughed all the way through it.

The Cooking Gene —by Michael W. Twitty. Second read, second review. That should tell you something, eh?

Cozy Up to Death: a novel about a bookstore, a cat, knitting, and blood (The Cozy Up Series Book 1) —by Colin Conway. All I can say is to buckle up, Buttercup. This ain’t your standard Granny-owns-a-bookstore cozy! A one-sit read and I’ll get the rest in the series. (First clue it’s different: the author is male!)

Twenty Poems That Could Save America and other essays —by Tony Hoagland. A collection of 12 of Mr. Hoagland’s essays about poets and poetry. Loved it!

Other stuff

I ain’t goin’ out any more than the dog demands! Fortunately, he isn’t very demanding 😉 We got another few inches last night, and it’s still coming down.

We’ve been in the midst of a cold spell, really cold. Here are a few snaps I took to give you an idea of how cold. By the time Tuesday (tomorrow) rolls around, I believe it will be a week of never getting above freezing.

Me in my double mask and double had (the outer had is merino wool, the inner hat is really just an ear warmer)
That’s not fog / twixt the far shore and me / Tis morning snow / through which I cannot see
Inlet between Bateman Island and where I live. Those are gulls walking on the ice. The Columbia River is beyond the island.

I subscribe to Rafael Jesús González blog. He is bi-lingual and writes in both Spanish and English. His post of yesterday was on Valentine’s Day, and it is here for your enjoyment.

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog want you to stay safe, stay warm, and keep wearing yur mask, even after you get your vaccination!

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog (who sees no socially redeeming quality to snow!) want you to stay safe, stay warm, and keep wearing your masks even after you get your vaccination!

Reviews, Bribes, and Me

Intro:

If you’ve known me for any length of time, you know I’m a fan of reviews. HONEST reviews. Especially of books. Good reviews are what sell products and books and are the best way to tell an author you appreciate her or his work. A lot of time and money goes into writing a book, and not much comes back, unless readers leave reviews. Good reviews.

I also leave reviews for products. Usually only good reviews, the worst I normally leave is 3 stars and I explain why. Well, a while back I bought something that was, in my opinion, not good for what it was. It was frustratingly difficult to use, and didn’t work as advertised. I left a 1-star review. I also explained in my review why it was so low. It was not a rant, but an explanation. 

A few days ago, I received an email from a personal gmail account, not a company account, and not through the Amazon Messaging that buyers and sellers are supposed to use to communicate. There was no mention of the product in the email (there was a link to ‘refresh my memory’ but since I didn’t know the person, I didn’t click on the link), but I figured out it was the sous vide cooking bags I ordered when I ordered my sous vide. I gave them a 1-star review.

They didn’t like the review and offered me a $20.00 bribe/refund to remove it. I reported them to Amazon and told the lady I talked to, that I felt like leaving an addendum to my review telling the world of the attempted bribe, she laughed and said that was my right. So I did. And then they offered me a $40.00 bribe to delete my review. And apologized if they offended me, but would I please take my review down? It’s hurting their business. They have assured me they have made changes to their product, but haven’t told me what changes they made. Instead of a bribe, why not send me the new product to review? And why, since I mentioned in my addendum to my original review, they should go through Amazon Messaging, are they continuing to email me direct? Ah, is a puzzlement 😉

I know Amazon has a problem with reviews—sellers buying good reviews or attempting to, and now bribing to delete bad ones. And I honestly don’t know how they can fix the problem, but I do know they are working on it. They do, truly, want honest reviews. If you ever have a problem with a seller, please report them. By phone (use the contact usbutton instead of direct dial), not chat, if possible. 

As frustrating as leaving reviews can be, I still implore you to leave reviews. Especially good ones for a product that worked for you. And for every book you finish on whatever review site you choose. If you’re reviewing my books, I’d appreciate a review on both Amazon and Goodreads and any other sites you know about and use. Best hugs I can get for a job at which I worked hard. Reviews are easy for books. We authors don’t need the dreaded book report from fifth grade, we just need something simple like: “I really liked this book. The story was great fun, well-written, and I had a hard time putting it down. I’ll read more of this author’s work.” Of course, you could add a lot more, but that is be up to you.

And I guarantee, I will NOT try to bribe you to pull the review if it’s a bad one. 

Outro:

Remember, double up on the masks. The new variants are in the country now. Recommended is the surgical mask (paper) or N95 under a cloth mask (pretty or fun). Just don’t use one of the N95s that has the exhalation doo-hickey, as that doesn’t keep your germs/viruses away from others.

And if you really want to go safe, and only wear one mask, use a new (never before used) vacuum bag, and cut it up to put between the two layers of your cloth mask. That works, too. Whatever you do, stay safe, stay healthy. Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog want to keep their friends!

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog.

Just came across this photo I took back in February of 2008 from the hill behind Kennewick. I was shooting into the sunset, and the mountain is Mt. Hood. I loved the colors but even more, how the cloud layers went over the mountain. Or are they smog layers? It was bitter cold, and dark where I was, and the camera was too slow for an in-focus hand-held shot, but I still think it’s interesting. 

Jabbed!

My neighbor got signed up for her Pfizer covid19 shot and gave me the number so I could, too. I couldn’t get through. All I ever got was the fast busy signal that tells me the system was over-loaded. Then she said she got registered, and her appointment was Wednesday, 27 Jan, at 8:50 in the morning at the local fair grounds. Could I take her?  Sure.

So we left a tad early, and got to the fair grounds at 8:30. And from the judging of it, we were a couple hours too late. We were almost at the end of the line.

I have to admit, it was well organized, we drove two by two down one parking aisle, then up the next, and after doing this for an hour or so, we got to a human. She asked if we were both registered, “She is,” I pointed to neighbor, “I’m just hoping they’ll have more.” She laughed and said I’d be fine. After about 30 more minutes, we approached a couple young GIs (Army -National Guard?), they gave me a form to complete, and sent us to follow directions of where to park car. I get my flu shot every year from the pharmacist, and I can always tell if he was military—better at giving shots 😉

With both windows rolled down, we each got our jab. First jab of two. Being the old Fartess that I am and having spent the 9 years 5 months 23 days (but, who’d counting?) in the military that I did, I’ve had my fair share of jabs, shots, and vaccinations. I’m here to tell you the Army (probably all military) medics do the best job. The least amount of pain—both for shot and after-pain. Alas, any reactions one has is not their cause. Of course, it probably helps that I’m not afraid of needles and my arm is totally relaxed.

So, this cute young GI (I may be on a diet, but I can certainly read the menu!) came to me, rubbed my arm with alcohol or something equally cold, and it was over before I knew it. I was watching as the needle went in. I NEVER FELT IT! If you’re hesitating at all, stop. Get the shot. And if your governor has activated your National Guard to give them at mass inoculation sites, get in line! Eye candy to go along with a life-saving jab 😉

The only time I felt the shot, was if I tried to do an impression of Red Skelton with his Gertrude and Heathcliff seagulls. Now, my understanding is, the second shot gives both extra protection, and some extra and temporary effects for 24-48 hours. I can live with that. You can, too.

Outro:

I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I do believe it’s sunshine, not an on-coming engine! Yes, I’ll probably have to wear the masks for a few mor months. Yes, it will probably be end of summer before we are back to normal, but normal (if we can remember what it is) is closer now than when we started this rodeo. But when it’s over, there’s inside restaurant dining to look forward to, road trips, visits with friends and family. Yee-haw! We’re on our way!!!

Stay safe, stay healthy, for Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog, if we’re the reason you need.

Color Me Jealous

Intro:

Words have meaning. So does context, and part of the context is the person who is speaking.

Many years ago, while still a teen, I was visiting my paternal grandmother, and something came up and I either said something or acted jealous of someone. I honestly don’t remember what precipitated the discussion, or rather “the talk” but I must have done orsaid something, because I got one of the most valuable adult-to-child talks ever by a woman who loved me dearly.

“Don’t be jealous, Lenora. It’s a wasted emotion.” She went on to explain that if I allow myself to be jealous, the only person I hurt is me. I’m the one who loses sleep, gains an ulcer, etc., the person I’m jealous of is totally oblivious. Well, duhhhh…. It made good sense to me, and I’ve never been truly jealous since. Oh, sometimes, momentarily, something happens, so when I say I’m jealous, or write it, you can bet dollars to donuts I’m not. Not really. 

Well, maybe a little. Amanda Gorman earned my jealous on Wednesday. She’s young, beautiful, skinny, poised, and smart as all get out! She is also the youngest poet to read her work for a President’s Inauguration, and the very first Youth Poet Laureate of the United States of America! I think Dr. Jill Biden chose the absitively posolutely bestest person to recommend. I just can’t think of a better poet to have been asked. Shows how intelligent President Biden is—he listens.

If you missed it, take a scant six minutes and watch her here. And watch her hands. OMG, such beauty, such grace. A performance poet of the highest caliber. Listen to the words. And know I am celebrating her. I am truly pleased with our youth and her representation of them. America, I am excited that our youth will take good care of our Democracy if she is their representative. And, I’m not really jealous. Honest. Trust me. 

Entertainment:

Peacock: I am pleased to say I have watched all 69 episodes of Columbo, in order. They held up remarkably well and were great fun to re-watch. I think out of the 69, there was only one I couldn’t remember seeing, so probably didn’t, I think it was S6 E1. A wonderful alternative to the politics of the day 😉 

Books:

Am finishing up The Cooking Gene, and a couple others. It’s my second time through The Cooking Gene, and I’m amazed at how much I forgot from the first read. I’ve read a few articles by researchers that you don’t retain what you read on an eReader as well as what you read on paper. At the time, they didn’t know why. The first time, I read it on my eReader. I seldom read nonfiction on my eReader, because I know I don’t retain it as well as when I read a paper book. Part of that, for me, is I’m spatial and have an image of what I’ve read, and where it is. On an eReader, all I know is, it’s out there, somewhere 😉 I read fiction on electronic devices, and fact and poetry on paper. (Poetry because the white space is important and it’s lost on eReaders.) And I have a good friend who disputes the findings. That’s all he ever reads. The only books I’ve seen in his house are either books I’ve given him, or loaned him.

Outro:

Oh. Em. Gee. Yes, I’m excited, thrilled, happy, that we now have a President who is intelligent, thoughtful, empathetic, and who understands and will fulfill to the best of his ability the oath he took. And I’m truly excited at the mask mandate. True, it’s only on planes, buses, trains, and at airports and on all Federal property. But he’s also asking everyone to wear a mask for 100 days. He said please. We can do it! Remember, if your nose isn’t properly dressed, you aren’t properly dressed!

Stay safe, stay healthy and if you live near Auntie Lenora, enjoy the snow! It started snowing last night, and is still coming down strong. A really good day to stay inside! Unless you have a camera 😉

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog!

On Healing

Intro:

I’m still pretty damn furious, and if what is coming out on the news is accurate…. If investigation confirms that some lawmakers not only verbally incited, but actually gave “recon” tours during lockdown, if they pointed out offices, if they had anything to do with the removal of office “Panic Buttons,” if they had anything to do with the threats on the lives of fellow lawmakers and their families – well, I’ll be beyond angry/mad/furious/seeing red. Personally, I think they should receive a fair trial and a life sentence to Guantanamo! Not that I have strong thoughts about it.

I rather like what my Auntie Marie told me several years ago, “I forgive, and I forget, but I remember always!”

That oath I first took in 1965 meant something to me, I volunteered. I knew what it meant. My country means a whole lot to me. Part of me doesn’t understand how people like Ted Cruz & Co. can act like they do—other than greed and selfishness.

Last week I said I didn’t have a clue how we move on. This week, I have that clue. I remembered a book I read maybe 30 years or so ago, Inside the Criminal Mind by Stanton Samenow, PhD. I had a person I my life who was very difficult to be around, highly manipulative, but not, at least when I knew him, a criminal. A friend recommended the book. One of the best I could have read. It has since been updated, and I’ve long given my copy away to someone I thought could use it, and we all know how my memory, what there of it, is.

My memory is Dr. Samenow and some cohorts worked with some pretty nasty criminals within the prison system, to see if it was possible to get them back on the straight and narrow. And they succeeded, with an extremely low rate of recidivism amongst the men (I think they were all men). As I recall, the first thing the prisoners had to do before they would be accepted for enrollment in the program, was to admit responsibility for what they had done. They couldn’t play victim; they couldn’t lay blame anywhere but at their own feet. They had to admit they were wrong and be willing to accept their punishment.

Again, memory says that those who went through the process got out early and, I imagine, had support on the outside, but their rate of recidivism was something like 1% if that. But you know me and numbers. Not to mention me and memory!

I think that’s where the healing must start. Those involved must accept their responsibility, must admit the lies they spread caused great and grievous harm, they must accept the will of the people, and either resign or be expelled. They not only put lives in danger, they caused serious injury to many, both physical and psychological, and the deaths (so far) of six people. They played. Now they must pay.

Another book that has helped me through the years since reading is The Sunflower by Simon Wiesenthal. This is a short essay/memoir about his time as a prisoner in various concentration camps in Nazi Germany. It takes up the first half of the book, which ends with the question, What would you do (in regards to forgiveness)? The second half of the book are short essays/answers to that question by various people from religious leaders around the globe to people on the street. The only people who can truly forgive a person are the ones hurt by that person. I can’t forgive George for beating the stuffing out of you, only you can, providing you want to and live to do it.

So, until Cruz & Co. (and all those who support them) stop the lying and truly apologize and ask for forgiveness, admit their guilt if you will, there can be no healing. Until Jim Jordan and all his buddies go on Fox News, etc., state that there was no fraud, the election was not stolen, but honestly won by Joe Biden, until they all own their culpability, I cannot forgive them. I cannot forgive them for killing Officer Sicknick or the others. Only the deceased can forgive that one. Their families can forgive for their loss. Once Cruz and Co are serious about their apologies, that is the time those of us who have been hurt can forgive. Not before. That is when the country can pull together and begin to put all this behind us.

The Washington Post put together a timeline of incidents, it’s 14:27 minutes long and worth the watch. Or at least, the read. 41 minutes of fear: A video timeline from inside the Capitol siege. Guantanamo may be too good for the seditionists. 

Healing will begin with admission of personal responsibility and then forgiveness. Remember, forgiveness is primarily for the person forgiving, not the one begging for it. Consider your forgiveness accordingly.

Auntie Lenora! Enough of the rant!!

Yes, yes it is. Time to change the subject!

Remember my New Year’s Resolution to write each day A Word A Day (AWAD) popped into my inbox? Well, so far, I’m doing it. Sometimes I have to wait till the end of the day to get it, but I’m doing it. Some words are pretty, well, hard to place, but I’m a doin’ it. Whatcha gonna do with vardy, or meech, or juberous? Yeah, I understand.

Well, this is embarrassing. I believe I told you about my new kitchen toy, my sous vide? The more I cook with it, the more I like it. I’m actually cooking real meals and sitting down at the table to eat now, instead of dumping everything into a bowl, nuking it, and eating while doing something else. So, the other morning, I decided to try cooking soft boiled eggs. My brother says they’re the best ever! (And he’d never lie to me). I took my eggs out early to bring them up to room temperature. An hour before I usually eat, I brought the water up to temperature. Forty-five minutes before breakfast time, I put my eggs in to cook, set the timer on my phone, and came in to work. Timer went off, I nuked the beans I wanted with the eggs, and realized the eggs weren’t ready. They weren’t even a wee bit cooked. I’d set the timer on my phone, not the timer on the sous vide. sigh. As Annie used to sing, Tomorrow,  there’s always tomorrow! 😉

Wednesday is the tomorrow I’m waiting for. It will be a breath of fresh air and sanity blowing through our country. 

Books:

I read a couple of fun books. One, A Cat’s Guide to Bonding with Dragons by Chris Behrsin, is a Teen/YA book, and a lot of fun. Poor Ben, a happy, spoiled, and well-fed cat in the south of Wales ends up between one bite and the next that never came, serving an evil mage in another plane. Ben is not happy, until he meets and bonds with his dragon.

Murder on the Old Bog Road: The Galway Homicides Book #1 by David Pearson is a delightful murder mystery. The description of how the body became a body is short, and not particularly gruesome beyond the obvious, there are no gun fights, no car chases, not too much bad language and what is there, it fits the story, and a bare bit of sex, but not in your face. You could give it to your grandma. Really loved visiting the Irish countryside, not horribly far from where Ryan’s Daughter was filmed so many years ago.

Still reading The Cooking Gene by Michael Twitty, very enjoyable, and The Lost Spells by Robert MacFarlane and Jackie Morris.

Outro:

So much has happened since the New Year. Frankly, old Auntie will be glad when things simmer down. 

Covid19 is out of control. You all know the drill. Don’t be selfish. Don’t get sick. Don’t give sickness to someone else. Mask. Socially Distant. An irritation now, a life later.

It’s cold out, and some of you are really, REALLY cold, so here’s a photo from last summer, a time of sunshine and warmth, of a Great Egret across from my home.

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog

I’m Mad as Hell!

I’ve gone through the shock, and the horror, and the hurt, and the tears, and now I’m mad as hell!

Below is what Donald J. Trump swore four long years ago. Emphasis mine.

“I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the Office of President of the United States, and will to the best of my abilitypreserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States.”

I believe he made it with his hand on the Holy Bible. Please note, the oath is not to his wallet, his bank account, or even to him or his office; it’s to a piece of parchment. A very special piece of parchment—The Constitution of the United States. I don’t remember if he added, “So help me God.” but I imagine he did, to show his evangelical buddies what a good God-fearing Christian he is. (Presidents have the option of adding ‘So help me God’ if they want to their oath.)

Trump has pushed the boundaries on many norms, he has gotten away with egregious transgressions because of his enablers. But he crossed the Rubicon when he deliberately incited an attempted coup d’etat of our country Wednesday last. 

He needs to be gone and gone for good, before he can do more damage. He has lied, he has given away classified information, he has aided and abetted felons, he has asked/begged foreign powers to help him in his re-election, he has shamed us on the national stage, and he has done his best to hang on to his power and deny the people of this country the president they voted for. There was no fraud. Well, yes, there was, I believe 3 dead people voted in PA — all voted for Trump.

He has broken his oath. Repeatedly. This last time was too much. He crossed the Rubicon. He provoked an armed attack on the United States of America. There will be investigations and more investigations. There are a great many unanswered questions—who declined to send in the National Guard? Who sent the police out in street uniforms instead of riot gear? Everyone in the area knew this was coming down. Why did it take so long to break it up? Why were there so few cops? Where were the feds? Why did the cops allow the seditionists to walk away instead of herding them into a guarded enclosure? Questions. Too many. This must not happen again. Yes, a major part is the seditionists were white, and therefore they were no real threat. OMG, can you imagine the blood bath if they had been people of color???

He thought, when he appointed all those judges, they would be beholden to him. He had no idea; they all knew what the oath they took meant. He kept referring to them as ‘his’ judges. I can’t even imagine what he must have felt when they continued to follow the Rule of Law, and the Constitution of the United States, and not just didn’t give him the election, but all but laughed his lawyers and him out of court. Talk about trying to commit fraud!

Below is the oath I took. Four times. Note, I, too, swore to defend a piece of parchment, not the President, not my officers, but a piece of parchment. Something else worth noting, for those of you who never served, although we took an oath to obey all orders, if they are not lawful orders, we have recourse and do not have to follow them, according to the UCMJ (Uniform Code of Military Justice).

“I, [name], do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; that I take this obligation freely, without any mental reservation or purpose of evasion; and that I will well and faithfully discharge the duties of the office on which I am about to enter. So help me God.

Members of Congress, Members of the Cabinet, any federal employee who takes an oath, takes a similar one. ALL swear to protect that piece of parchment. Loyalty is to the Constitution of the United States, not to another human being. Period. Full stop. The end. Fade out. Roll credits.

There should be no place of welcome in our country for White Supremacists, for Anarchists, for Fascists, for people who hate anyone who is different than they are, who worship a different Face of God (or no god) than they do, just because they are different.  It is time to stop being a Victim. It isn’t easy, but it can be done with hard work. You’ll feel better when you succeed. Honest. Trust me.

It is time for the media to stop calling lies something soft like “misstatements.” If a politician lies, they need to be called on it, but the caller needs to be sure their facts are correct. The people who drank Trump’s Kool Aid will have a hard time changing their minds, no matter the facts and how they’re presented. They will probably go into cognitive dissonance. It behooves us to find a gentle way to convince them their ideas need to change. It will take time for the antidote to work.

How do we move on? How do we help those who believe the delusion, who believe the lies? To be honest, I don’t have a clue, but I suspect love and patience will play a large part in it. And move on we must. And we must not let another fascist autocrat try to destroy our country. 

As President Elect Biden said, they are our opponents, they are not our enemy, they are fellow Americans. So, yes, I’m mad as hell. I’ll get over the mad, the hurt, the pain, and then I’ll do what I can to help my fellow Americans and this country we love heal. 

A Buddhist chant from the opening of an illegal temple in the midst of a Khmer Rouge prison camp in Cambodia:

Hatred never ceases by hatred

but by love alone is healed.

This is an ancient and eternal law.

Think on it.

Auntie Lenora and Sammy Brave Dog

And because in all this madness, even Auntie Lenora can find a laugh-out-loud moment now and again. I share one and my Thank You to Randy Rainbow! and his latest parody.

Happy 2021

Intro:

January 4, 2021.

For more years than I can remember I have 1. avoided New Year’s Eve Parties, and 2. making New Year’s Resolutions. Things change, good happens.

This year, I attended the first New Year’s Eve party I’ve been to in, well, more years than I can honestly remember. I avoid them for several perfectly good reasons, to me. Not least of which is I hate sharing the roads home with drunk drivers. I also have a dog (or, in years past cats or other dogs) and when people start setting off firecrackers, it frightens them. No, my usual New Year’s Eve is sitting in bed with a good book, and a glass of single malt scotch. 

This year, I skipped the scotch, and went to a party with Merlot. I think there were 8 of us, we all were drinking—some alcoholic drinks, some maybe not. We spent about 3 hours together and had a really good party. Best one I’ve ever been too. Ever. No one got drunk or disorderly, and not one of us had to drive home and share the road, because we were already home. It was great. Good company, many laughs, and we were all socially distanced (by miles, actually), and no masks necessary. I really love Zoom!

And, if that wasn’t enough, I made a New Year’s Resolution! Arrrgh, what is this world coming to??? 

I have long subscribed to A Word A Day (AWAD) by Anu Garg. This year, I decided to write something every day a new word shows up in my inbox. I did not limit myself to what I would write — a sentence, a paragraph, an essay, a poem. Whatever. There are five words a week. And, no, I won’t bore you with my daily writes ;-)I don’t know if black-eyed peas are a fave of yours or not, I enjoy them. I like them now and again, but most especially on New Year’s Day. Many people believe if you eat them on New Year’s Day you’ll have a good year. I certainly won’t quibble on that one. While 2020 wasn’t all that good, I didn’t lose anyone close to me, so it was a good year. My favorite way of eating them is in a salad, the recipe for which I found in my Potluck Cookbook by Emeril Legasse. The recipe is now online and is yummy. Especially good to take to a potluck! Check it out, Black-eyed Pea Salad.

Entertainment:

Peacock: Am on the 10th and final Columbo season. 

Books (for complete reviews and more reviews, please go to Rainy Day Reads:

I read and reviewed 60 books last year. If I don’t finish a book for whatever reason, I don’t review it. 

First book of the year: Mouse of Cards by Erin Johnson. I needed something light to start the year off, and this is part of the Magic Market Mysteries. Read out of sequence, but that’s OK. Second book of the year, A Raga for George Harrisonby Sharmagne Leland-St. John. Historical and (sometimes) humorous poetry. If I have to choose a fave, it would be, “I Said Coffee.” 

I’m currently reading: the lost spells by Robert MacFarlane and Jackie Morris. It’s a delightful book meant to be read aloud, and the words and art to be savored. Also reading Taro by Blue Spruell—an epic tale of Japan’s legendary hero. So far, very enjoyable. Re-reading The Cooking Gene by Michael W. Twitty. I read it a few years ago, on my eReader, and am reading the hard copy now. If anything, it’s even more enjoyable this time around.

Outro:

And here we are, to the beginning of a new year. Sixteen days till Biden’s inauguration, 355 days until next Christmas. Start shopping now, and miss the madding crowds then, 29 days til Groundhog’s Day. And maybe 6 months and we can all see if we can remember what normal was. In the meantime, stay safe, stay healthy, wear your mask properly and show you care for your neighbors, your friends, and your family.  

More hacks on not getting fogged glasses at AccuWeather.com.

Auntie Lenora 

and 

Sammy Brave Dog

How Far Should We Go in Canceling?

Intro:

Auntie Lenora is so fortunate in her friends and family. She is truly loved. Among the many wonderful gifts she received was a calendar of labyrinths in the sand at Bandon, OR, books—one of poetry and gorgeous artwork (The Lost Spells by Robert MacFarlane and Jackie Morris) and a fantasy trilogy (Queens of Renthia by Sarah Beth Durst) She also received a beautiful coffee mug, some gifts from Trader Joe’s, some fabric, and a small homemade cloth ‘bowl’ filled with tiny scraps (it’s really a thread holder for when trimming seams, etc.)! OMG, there is something terribly wrong with Auntie Lenora, because that was probably the biggest excitement of the day! Yes, wee scraps, maybe ½” x 3”. You’ll be the first to see the quilts those are used in;-) And a jar of homemade plum ketchup. Oooooh, yessssss. But the bestest gifts of all were the gifts of friendship and familyship she has with her friends and families, of which you, dear reader, are a member. Thank you.

I recently signed up for a free membership with Medium.com. I am only allowed so many free articles per month, unless I pay. So far, I’m not quite there. I tell you this because I’ve linked one of their articles below, and you, too, may be asked to subscribe for the free issues.

They do have an interesting article, Should We Keep Separating the Art from the Icon? —by Pandora Domeyko. A very interesting article about Salvatore Dali and Coco Channel. By now, I’m sure most of us know that she was a Nazi sympathizer. Was she really, or was she a survivor? But how many of us knew Dali was a Fascist? A true believer in Mussolini, Franco, and Hitler! 

In this day of cancelling people, especially old, dead, white guys, how far do we take it? Do we boycott Channel clothes and perfumes because she believed in the wrong side of history? Do we stop admiring Dali for the same reason? Oh, according to this article, he was something else. Franco, whom he not only admired but supported tortured his sister, killed a brother, and he (Dali) was known to beat his wife. Do I now have to stop admiring his art? All of the things he’s accused of fostering, I’m against.

Do I stop watching a movie I’m enjoying if I discover during intermission (commercial breaks) that Harvey Weinstein had his (allegedly) lecherous fingers involved in the making of said movie? Do I quit reading my books by an author I’ve long admired because he’s been accused (credibly, I’d say, since he at least apologized) of sexual misconduct?

I think the last one is the one that really made me stop and think about it. Really think about it. This particular poet/author is, among other things, a bona fide jerk. I have good friends who know him and I trust their judgement. OK, he’s a jerk. I’ve been known to be slightly off base myself at times. I’ve said things I wish I hadn’t. Sometimes I didn’t realize I’d said something hurtful, but I tried, when I found out and when I could, to apologize. But damn! This guy can write! Especially poetry. Is there a way to cancel him, but not his works?And Dali. Two of his religious paintings are not only two of my favorite religious (Christian) paintings, but probably the only two of his paintings, as well as the only two religious (Christian) paintings, I really like. One is Sacrament of the Last Supper and the other is Christ of Saint John of the Cross.

As for Channel, I’m not overly fond of perfumes, but I did love her LBD (little black dress) and some of her suits when I was younger, slimmer, and working for a living. Not, mind, that I could ever afford one, but I could afford some knockoffs 😉

I no longer dream of meeting said author, but if we both have a piece of work in the same collection, I certainly won’t pull mine in protest. And I will remain pleased and proud that we’re together between the covers. 

Of course, you know what happened to the last perfect person who walked on our planet. They crucified him. So, I guess I’m not going to totally cancel any of the above, or any of the old white male supremacists, etc., either. But neither am I going to venerate them. It’s not my place to forgive or not forgive Thomas Jefferson for the treatment of his slaves and children. I don’t have to like it, because he knew damn well what he was doing and why. He was a selfish sumbitch. However, his philosophies helped form one of the, if not the, greatest nations ever! I love his art (our country), just not him. 

I will never think of Robert E. Lee as anything but a bone fide Traitor to our country. Only those he personally wronged (and there were many) can forgive him, and they’re all dead, now. 

I will continue to read Sherman Alexie, but I will no longer rush out to buy his latest book as soon as it’s available. I’ll take my time. He did admit, and apologize, for his transgressions once brought to the public’s attention, for that he gets credit.

All those mentioned above, and the uncountable others not mentioned, and all those who have committed crimes, I firmly believe they should be tried, and if found guilty, sentenced appropriately. But I think the idea of cancelling is as much personal as social—maybe more so. If I may paraphrase an old saying from the days of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, “Love the art, not the artist.” I may not support the artist but I will admire the art. I think we all need to think about it before we cast that first stone. 

Entertainment:

Peacock: Still enjoying Columbo! I’m just about through season 10. 😉

Books (for complete reviews and more reviews, please go to Rainy Day Reads:

Pretty Little Fliers —by Erin Johnson, Ms. Johnson has created a fun universe where it appears everyone has magic of one sort or another—except our heroine. She had magic, at one time, and then ran into a spell that deleted it. At one time, our heroine had a life, a job as a lawyer, the ability to shift, an affianced—then she met someone who didn’t like her and wham! zam! not anymore ma’am! So, she gets to live in the slums as a fraudulent pet psychic, gets involved in a murder, falls for the hunka hunka cop who is sweet, but borderline clueless, and I’m not gonna tell you anymore!

His Holiness the Dalai Lama —by Comcast NBC Universal (a transcript), I’ve read other books by/about HH the Dalai Lama that I thought were better; that said, I think this is a good intro into his life, and how he ended up where he is today. It’s also a good intro to Tibetan Buddhism.

A Tale of Two Reapers —by Jack Wallen. Every year I give me a new book from me. That way I know I’ll get at least one new book I will enjoy. This year’s Christmas present from me to me was A Tale of Two Reapers. I could not have picked a better book to curl up with on the sofa and read, cover to cover. I love a good urban fantasy that makes me laugh out loud several times through the book. On most pages, actually.

Outro:

New Year’s Eve is just a few days away, and then it will be 2021. It just has to be better than 2020, and yet, there were many bright spots in 2020. Be sure you look for yours, and when you find them, hold them tight, and do your best to forget the pain of the year. I’ve made new friends (via zoom groups), had two books published, found many things to laugh about. I choose to remember the laughter over the tears when possible. So please, have a Happy New Year!!! Next week, will be a word or three about Auntie Lenora’s New Year’s Resolution.

Auntie Lenora 

and 

Sammy Brave Dog

Chinese Goose, “On the count of three, everybody sing.”

Books, Books, and an Apology

Intro:

First off, there was a glitch in last week’s posting. I don’t know what caused it, or how to fix it, or even it it showed up to anyone but me; however, I’m working on it. I write the blog in Word, then copy and paste to Word Press. I had a couple of links in the blog and when they went to WP, they opened, which was fine, except the second one covered a whole paragraph. That was not fine. I’m repeating the paragraph here, and adding some more.

Books: Read. To Cipher and to Sing —by Ian Lahey. Boy Howdy! Could I relate to some of this book. The tag line on Amazon is, “The one thing which is worse than watching androids take over your job is having to teach them your job yourself.” Professor Gordon Fairlight is a book nerd, a teaching nerd, and doesn’t have a techie gene in his body. He’s not fond of androids, either. His wife, on the other hand… Lahey writes with, as he says, accidental humor and believability, and this book is great fun. I truly enjoyed it. Available electronically from Amazon. For whatever reason, the Amazon gods have decreed I can’t post a review of his book from my account, so here is the review I tried to post. 

The Girl Who Lived in a Shoe and other Torn-Up Tales—Compiled by Bernice Seward. A young friend of mine (almost all my friends are, by definition, young, especially when compared to me!) asked if I’d read a story she was working on and comment. I did. I loved it. The other day she told me the book in which it appears is now published, and a couple nights ago she dropped a copy off for me. I took the book to bed and laughed all the way through it. Well, chuckled, maybe. When I wasn’t outright laughing.

The next morning, as I was reading the reviews, I realized it’s a child’s book of retold and considerably more relevant, fairytales. No, the large print and delightful illustrations didn’t trip that switch when I read it. Sigh.

Five women have re-told five of our more famous fairytales and made them much more relevant to today’s children. The book is written for 2d-3d grade level readers (that didn’t trip the switch, either.  Double sigh.) I have a small collection of kiddie books I haul out and read every so often. Life was so much simpler then, and for a while, I can once again enter into that simpler, happier, world.

If you have short people on your list, this is a great book for them. Get a copy for you, too. You can read it and keep it for when short people come to visit. I dare say, it’s also one you can read out loud several times and not tear your hair out while doing it 😉

https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Lived-other-Torn-Up-Tales/dp/0999537857/ref=sr_1_1?crid=H3K8S984OJDX&dchild=1&keywords=the+girl+who+lived+in+a+shoe+and+other+torn-up+tales&qid=1608522084&sprefix=the+girl+who+lived+in+a+s%2Caps%2C262&sr=8-1

Of course, Auntie Lenora believes you can never have, or give, too many books. In fact, she has a couple of her own that you might like to buy… read… gift… (See My Books, above). If you order from her, she will sign and ship them per your directions. (Price of shipping varies depending on how you want it shipped.) 

Entertainment:

Peacock: I’m still working my way through Columbo. Season 6, episode 1 was the first one I came to I don’t remember seeing before. I’m in season 8 now. Ian Lahey (To Cipher and to Sing) calls them, “howcatchem” stories. Always a treat to discover the how.

Solstice &c: Today is our Winter Solstice. Shortest day of our year, longest night. IF you are fortunate enough to live under a cloudless sky, you may get to see the conjunction of Saturn and Jupiter in the night sky.

Then there are whatever days you exchange gifts, if you do. Now THAT can be entertaining, especially if you have short people who love to play with the wrapping more than the gift. We in my family are celebrating our gift giving day in July! Please feel free to join us on your own schedule. 😉

Outro: 

Wahoo!!!! We have two vaccines in the pipeline. Now if they’ll just get from the pipeline to the States, and then into the arms of the people. Come next summer, we may see ourselves no longer wearing, or being asked to wear, a mask. Social distancing may become a thing of the past, too. I wonder how long it will take us to be comfortable being close to strangers and now-and-then acquaintances again? Please, don’t let your guard down until we get the “all clear” from Dr. Fauci. Wear your mask, remain socially distant, celebrate the Holidays in June or July!!! Plan that wedding in the park on 4 July, and really celebrate with all those fireworks!! 

In the meantime, Stay Safe, Stay Healthy. You are important to Auntie Lenora, not to mention your immediate friends and family!

Whatever Winter Holiday you celebrate, have a happy one, and learn to Zoom 😉

Auntie Lenora

Country Charley Pride

Intro:

I have been soooo fortunate since Covid19 came to our world, the only person I knew who died of Covid19 I never met, the husband of a friend of mine. He was one of the first to die of it in Seattle area. Well, my luck has changed. A man I’ve considered a friend since 1967 when we met in the NCO Club at Karlsruhe, Germany died of it—Country Charley Pride. 

When I was in the WAC and stationed in Karlsruhe, Germany, during the time of the Viet Nam war (I still have a hard time remembering that Vietnam is now only one word, then it was two) many entertainers came to town to entertain the troops. They were, all of them, appreciated. Some were ex-pats who lived in Europe and came regularly about 4 times a year. I don’t know where Charley Pride lived, I think he was in the States, but he came maybe twice a year.

I often had a perception the others came primarily for the stipend received, and that was OK. But when Charley Pride, the country singer with the permanent suntan came, my perception was he came to entertain us because he truly wanted to be there for our support. He had put his time in the Army, he knew what it was like. He was friendly, he was approachable, and he just seemed to enjoy singing for us. I wasn’t a big fan of country music, but I sure was a big fan of Charley Pride. I have since become a fan of country music. But that’s another story.

I understand this video was recorded a month before he died. It’s delightful. Watch it. Raise a toast to one of the Greats of our time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=126&v=FxM4GDimobE&feature=emb_title

Charley Pride was 86 years young. 

https://charleypride.com

Washington Post Obituary 

Entertainment:

Peacock: Still watching Columbo. Still chuckling and laughing. Fun to see so many of the actors I grew up with once again young, and in some cases once again alive. The show has held up well. Started Season 6 yesterday. I actually had never seen episode 1 before, I thought I’d seen them all, several times over. So far, that’s the only one I don’t remember.

Books: Read one, working on a second. To Cipher and to Sing —by Ian Lahey. Boy Howdy! Could I relate to some of this book. The tag line on Amazon is, “The one thing which is worse than watching androids take over your job is having to teach them your job yourself.” Professor Gordon Fairlight is a book nerd, a teaching nerd, and doesn’t have a techie gene in his body. He’s not fond of androids, either. His wife, on the other hand… Lahey writes with humor and believability, and this book is great fun. 

The other book I’m reading (almost finished) is Louisiana Hotshot: A New Orleans Murder Myster; Talba Wallis #1—by Julie Smith. So far there are 4 books in this series. A fun story that takes place in New Orleans. The book starts out with an ad in the paper, Wanted: Hotshot PI with near super-human skills. So, of course, our young Ivy League graduate computer genius applied, got the job, and began a new series. A tidbit of trivia, she mentions the Desire line streetcar, immortalized by Tennessee Williams. I’d always thought that streetcar had more to do with the characters than actuality. Nope, it really existed. There really was a Streetcar Named Desire. You can learn the funnest things from books. (If you click on the hot links, there’s a bit about them. The first about T. Williams and the play, the second about the Desire Line.)

Don’t forget, every book I read all the way through, gets reviewed at http://lenoragood.blogspot.com as well as Amazon and Goodreads.

Hack of the times: Wear glasses? I think it was AARP that posted a way to alleviate, if not eliminate, fogged glasses when wearing a mask. It works! Fold a 4-5” piece of tissue a few times, tape inside your mask under the nose area, and voila! no more fog. The tissue is soft and warm and it absorbs the moisture of your breath.

Outro: 

Losing Charley Pride hit too close to home. And proves that not all taxpayers get to partake of taxpayer-funded treatment! I’m not going to nag you to wear a mask, socially distance yourself, they aren’t fun. I know. And it’s hard. And there is not instant reward. I know. But I do ask you to wear the mask, socially distant yourself from friends and family, do the hard things now and know you’ve done your part to avoid the hard thing of a funeral for a loved one later. I know most of you, my favorite and gentle readers have not been through military basic/boot camp. Those of us who have, well, perhaps we have a slight edge on you, for we know we could survive basic/boot, therefore we can survive anything, even a mask, socially distancing, staying away from loved ones for the holidays… Please, pretend you’re the avatar you’ve chosen for your favorite game, and you want to do the hard thing for your country and you. Please. Wear a mask, social distance, and do not socialize unless via electronic means. Just until we can get this thing beat back to whatever pit of hell it came from. Oh, I nagged after all, didn’t I? Humble apologies.

Fairwell, Charley Pride. You were a bright star in our sky while you were with us and shall remain a bright star in our lives thanks to modern technology. But you are still missed, greatly missed. Rest in Peace.

Auntie Lenora